I suppose that most people wouldn't equate dementia care with the word "fun," but it doesn't have to be that way. Just like those of us who have all (or most) of our faculties, they need ways to relax and have fun. As caregivers, a lot of our time is taken up with negative or unpleasant things. It's important that we find ways to play together. Time spent together in play is important, as it gives us a chance to share some positive interactions.

Often, as our elders lose some of their mental powers, they also lose their inhibitions. They may have a period of a few months, or even several years, when they enjoy games and activities that we usually associate with children. Other dementia care recipients may not have this regressed period. The activities that they enjoy may be quite different.

Early stage dementia care is extremely important. There is a lot of evidence indicating that mental stimulation can help to slow the advance of Alzheimer's symptoms. Of course, this doesn't mean that you should assign Grandma regular homework or chores. Well-chosen activities that are safe but reasonably difficult, interesting to your loved one, and engaging to the senses can be an important part of dementia care.

Safe, similar to activities for young children, means that under reasonable supervision, your loved one won't be hurt. Dementia care isn't a one-size-fits-all world, and everyone has different challenges. Some may mouth objects, similar to babies, and choking would be a serious hazard. Clumsiness, a common problem, might make sharp or heavy objects a risk. Be aware of what limitations you may be working with when choosing activities.

Others may be able to handle physical tasks well, even using knives and cooking on the stove, but get easily frustrated by complex tasks. Dementia care should involve some mild challenges, but not impossible ones. Try to find activities that are hard, and may require some assistance, but also provide small victories and satisfaction.

An important part of dementia care is to remember the individual. It can be surprisingly fun to find ways to translate old hobbies into new ones. If Grandma has always loved to garden, some potted plants may allow her to continue enjoying a scaled-down version. Card games and board games are also a lot of fun, and you can adapt the rules if you need to. Going for a walk is another great activity for the outdoor lover.

Many arts and crafts, although designed for kids, can be a great part of dementia care plans. Especially around the holidays, crafts can be a great way to encourage creativity and reminisce. Talking about memories often brings to mind others, and holiday activities can trigger an avalanche of stories. Music lovers may enjoy singing or listening to music, or you might want to introduce music bingo. It's similar to bingo, but the spaces are marked with song titles. You may choose to play a short sample from the song or the whole thing.

Clearly, this is just a small sample of activities that you may enjoy. What's important is that you choose activities that are safe, fun, and stimulating. You may try some out and decide that they aren't as great as they sound, while others that sound boring end up being a favorite.

If you are interested in reading more about dementia and other senior care related issues, please visit www.OurCareCommunity.com - a free resource built on the concepts of "community sourcing" and "virtual networking". The result is a forum where members pool ideas, share experiences, access the latest expert information, and find creative solutions for all their elder care needs and questions.

Contributing Editor: Julie Sanocki, CNA
Julie is a graduate of the Certified Nursing Assistant program at Lanier Technical College and has over 10 years experience in elder care. Having been a family member arranging eldercare as well as a professional providing it, she understands the needs and concerns of all involved.


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